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Why has my baby started waking in the night?

We explain how to settle your baby back into a sleep routine if they've suddenly started waking in the night.


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If you've settled your baby into a sleep routine and have got used to almost uninterrupted sleep it can be incredibly frustrating if your baby starts to wake up in the middle of the night again. This is, however, incredibly common and most infants will go through at least one 'night waking' phase after they've learned to sleep through.

Babies, just like adults experience sleep cycles each night whereby different phases of sleep are punctuated by short periods of being awake. When you taught your baby to sleep through the night they learnt how to move from one sleep cycle to the next without waking themselves fully. In all likelihood there will have been some sort of trigger that will have broken this habit and caused your baby's spell of night waking. So, the key to help your baby sleep through the night once again is it to identify the trigger and remind them how to settle back to sleep without your help.

Why is my baby night waking?

There are a huge number of reasons why your baby might have started waking up during the night but here are the most common:
  • Illness - Its very common for babies to start waking up at night if they're feeling poorly or are just recovering from an illness, especially if they have gotten used to being taken into bed with you or have you soothe them back to sleep during the night.

  • Teething - The discomfort of teething may be causing your baby to wake at night. Check your baby's top and bottom gums to look for signs they're cutting their first tooth.

  • Development - Infants often start waking as they learn new developmental skills, it's almost as if they want to practice their new ability as much as they can.

  • Comfort - Something about your baby's sleeping environment may be causing them to wake fully in the night. Check whether their room is a comfortable temperature, whether they have on the right amount of clothes and bedding, whether there is a change in the amount of light shining into their room or whether there is a specific night time noise that is causing them to wake.

  • Growth spurt - Your baby's waking may simply be down to a growth spurt when, typically, baby's feel more hungry than usual. If you have already stopped night time feeds you could try giving them a little more milk in their bedtime feed, increase the amount of solids they're consuming slightly or even consider weaning if they're past six months and not on solids yet.

  • Change - Night waking could be your baby's way of processing a change in their environment whether you've moved their cot, been on holiday or something else entirely.
How to help your baby sleep through

If there is something obvious that's waking your baby in the night then you should try and modify this as best you can to help them return to uninterrupted sleep (i.e. if their room is to cold use an extra blanket or it it's light from outside that's disturbing them fit blackout blinds to their window). However, if you can't find anything that has obviously triggered their relapse to night wakings then the best approach to take is to revert back to the methods that you used to teach them to sleep through the first time around.

It can be a good idea to:
  • Keep a consistent bedtime routing - It can be tempting to put your baby to bed later in the hope this will help them to sleep through the night but this can actually have the opposite effect as sleep deprivation is likely to make your baby wake up even more. If anything it can be a good idea to settle your baby to sleep a little earlier and see how they respond as being overtired may be what's causing them to wake. Also, a soothing bath, book and bedtime routine (or whatever works for you and your baby) will help your baby relax and wind down for a good nights sleep.

  • Maintain a daytime nap schedule - Young infants work well to routines and a consistent daytime nap schedule will help prevent your baby from becoming overtired and will ensure that when it comes to bedtime your baby is ready for sleep.

  • Reinforce the idea that night is for sleeping - You will need to help your baby relearn that night time is not the right time to play, chat and be awake. You can do this by keeping bright lights, noise and contact to a minimum. Unless your baby is feeling poorly avoid picking them up or taking them out of their cot as this will only reinforce the idea that you'll come and give them attention whenever they call even if it's the middle of the night. Similarly you should also try avoid unnecessary feeds and changes if you've stopped night time feeding. Music, mobiles or other toys should also be avoided or your baby is likely to depend on them as cues for sleep and need them every time they wake.
Although night waking can be a very stressful phase to deal with again reassure yourself that as your baby learned to sleep through the night before, they'll be able to do it again and while it may take a couple of weeks to get them back in the habit, they will relearn this skill and you will be able to enjoy a peaceful night's sleep once again.

Whether you have experience, advice or concerns about your baby night waking or anything else, why not visit the AskBaby forums and chat to other parents who understand what you're going through.

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my daughter is nearly 1 years old and she still wakes up at night, some days she wakes up every hour, for the past week she doesn't like sleeping in the cot either, when we put her in bed with us she doesn't wake up that much but when she is in the cot then she wakes up every hour but at the moment she doesn't even like sleeping in the cot, she has learned to sleep on her own she normally falls a sleep on my breast, i have heard of the controlled cying but with my daughter if she cry alot then she throws up so i don't know what to do, has anyone got any advice please help.
added by Billie [Tue 23rd Sep 2008 @ 08:54:28]
My second baby is large for his age. He's 16 weeks and weighs over 16lbs. About 14 days ago, after having slept through for a few weeks, he started waking in the night again. This has escalated into waking 2-4 times a night. I'm really struggling to cope as I also have a 19 month old toddler (luckily he sleeps really well). I'm not sure if it is beacuse baby needs to start on solids or because I've got into the habit of feeding him at the 2-3am waking. I have tried giving him water, etc - nothing seems to work. He seems to be really hungry and settles straight back to sleep after a bottle feed of 7-8ozs. He doesn't feed really well at 7am if he has been fed in the night, but will usually take about 5-7ozs by 9am. I would like people's comments on whether they think I should start giving him solids or try sleep-train/controlled crying when he wakes at 2/3am.
added by artheart71 [Tue 23rd Sep 2008 @ 08:54:16]
My daughter has just turned 9 months old and in general is a fantastic sleeper. However, for the last fortnight she has started waking up at 5.30am and despite having a feed, she only dozes and doesn't really settle back to sleep. This is in contrast to going to sleep at 7pm and sleeping through to 6.30-7am. I know I shouldn't complain, but does anyone have any advice?
added by sassyd [Wed 17th Sep 2008 @ 08:51:00]
My child is 15 months and is waking up at 4 am every morning and not settling back to sleep, if anyone has advice i will be happy to take it on board.
added by NATALIECLARK [Tue 2nd Sep 2008 @ 08:49:47]
My baby has gone to sleep on his own since he was 8 weeks old and slept through from 5 months. At 8 months he started waking and had to be fed to get him back to sleep. We recently went on holiday for 2 weeks in a caravan where he was awake at least 3 times every night. Now we're home he will not even settle on his own just screams as soon as I put him in cot. Have to pick him up and nurse him to sleep and still waking up at least twice. Any advice? Has gone from being the best sleeper out of 3 children to the worst!
added by gilc [Fri 15th Aug 2008 @ 09:03:06]





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