Find out what steps you can take if you've been trying to conceive for a while and still aren't pregnant.Discuss i'm still not pregnant - what should i do? on our forums, right now! Or, post a comment below.When you and your partner have decided you want to have a baby together, it's likely you'll want to conceive as soon as possible so you can start enjoying your pregnancy. But if months go by and you still haven't conceived, you may start to feel disappointed and wonder what's going on.
However it's important not to lose hope. It can take a while to get pregnant but many couples who have trouble conceiving in the first few months or even years go on to conceive naturally and have a healthy pregnancy. There are options out there, and steps you can take to find out why you might be having trouble conceiving.
I've been trying for several monthsIf you've been trying for a baby for less than a year and you're under the age of 35, there's no need to visit your doctor just yet. One in 10 couples take a year or more to conceive, so you may just have to wait a little longer.
It's worth remembering that conception is basically a matter of chance, and if you're aged between 20 and 25 you have a 25% chance of conceiving per cycle (the chances are 15% if you're between 30 and 35). It's possible that it will also take you longer to conceive if you've just
come off the Pill and started trying without waiting for your cycle to return to normal.
There's still nothing to stop you going to see your GP however, if only to discuss your hopes and concerns, and get some helpful advice. It's likely that your doctor will recommend that you continue as normal, making sure that you are
eating healthily, getting
plenty of exercise, and
reducing stress in your life as much as possible.
If you're over 35 and have been trying for 6 months or more, it may be a good idea to see your doctor at this point so that you can identify any issues that may make it harder for you to conceive and get them sorted right away.
I've been trying for over a yearIf you're under 35 and have been trying to get pregnant for a year or more, it's best for you at this point to consult your GP to talk about your situation. Visiting your doctor will give you the chance to discuss your concerns and he or she will be able to give you advice for why it might take be taking you longer to conceive.
It's likely that if you've been trying for a year or more without success, your doctor will recommend that you take some tests to find out if there might be a possible problem. These may include smear tests, blood tests, urine tests, and possibly a sperm test for your other half. Your doctor is likely to ask about yours and your partner's medical histories, to determine if any illness you've had in the past might be affecting your fertility now.
Checking your blood will give your GP an idea of whether or not you are ovulating and if your hormones are at the right balance to conceive, among other factors that might affect your chances of getting pregnant. If after these tests everything comes back normal, it may just be that a little more patience is needed (as hard as it sounds!) and you'll hopefully conceive naturally in your own time by continuing to lead a healthy lifestyle.
What if there are problems with my tests?If any of your tests come back with a result that might indicate possible fertility issues, your doctor will recommend that you see a fertility specialist. However daunting this might sound you shouldn't think that all hope is lost, as so many couples go on to conceive with or without fertility treatment. Seeing a fertility specialist could be just the help you need to finally conceive.
When you visit a fertility specialist you will probably have some more tests to determine if there is a problem. These may include more blood tests and ultrasound scans to check your womb, and may result in a prescription of
fertility drugs to help things along.
The important thing to remember is to stay calm, however long it's taking you to conceive, and concentrate on leading a healthy lifestyle. Although easier said than done, minimising the feelings of stress when trying to get pregnant is likely to do wonders for your health as well as your chances of conceiving.
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Me and my partner have been trying for over a year to conceive. I had the implant (which i had out in Dec 08), since then i didn't have any periods until august last year, when I had a light period lasting 3 days, then 5 weeks later I had a litlle spotting for 2 days. I have done numerous tests, all of which have come back negative. My partner works away, a whilst he was back over Christmas, we had sex every day. Then this morning when I woke up, I had a little bleeding (spotting). Could this bleeding be implatation bleeding and I am pregnant, or could it be me periods starting again? Could someone please give me some advise on this. thank you
Mine its a question.Is it possible to conceive when your GP made some tests on you and told you that the other tube is blocked while the other one is partly blocked?Since told that we have been trying for twelve months with no success.
I AM 26 AND I'VE BEEN TRYING TO CONCIVE FOR THE PAST 3 MONTHS AND IT NOT WORKING, HOW CAN YOU ADVISE ME.
could be something simple, which meds can sort out! in the meantime ive heard this can work ive tried it , when trying to fall pregnant with my third baby, after sex, try to avoid getting up, llie in bed on your side with one leg over your partners leg. good luck x
What shall I do? Me & my partner are not using any contraceptives now but it seems like its difficult for me to get pregnant? pls. help