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When should you start your maternity leave?

Should you trade time to nest for time with your baby? We share advice on how to decide a date to start your maternity leave.


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In the UK, it's clearly defined that pregnant employees are entitled to up to 52 weeks maternity leave (comprising 26 weeks of 'Ordinary Maternity Leave' and 26 weeks of 'Additional Maternity Leave'), 39 weeks of which you may be eligible for Statutory Maternity Pay. However, there is little legal or medical guidance as to when you should start your maternity leave.

This is a surprisingly difficult decision because while its tempting to say that you'll work for as long as possible so that you'll have more time off to spend with your baby once he or she arrives, this may not be the best option for you. Some women successfully work right up until they go into labour and feel fine while others choose to start maternity leave as soon as possible.

What does the law say?

Legally you have to notify your employer 15 weeks before your baby is due when you would like to start your maternity leave. It is possible to change your mind so there is a little flexibility however, you will have to give at least 28 days notice of any change you decide to make.

You are able to start your maternity leave as soon as 11 weeks before your due date, however you are entitled to paid time off for antenatal appointments and classes recommended by your midwife or doctor before this.

The need to 'nest'

While some women feel happy going straight from work to life with a new baby, others feel they need to switch off from work mode and get themselves in a 'new Mum' mindset before their baby arrives. So, when deciding on a start date for your maternity leave its important to consider how much time you'd like to prepare for your baby's arrival both psychologically and practically. Many women feel they need a couple of weeks to sort out the house, stock up the freezer, buy last minute baby bits and just relax before the big day. However, if you have everything sorted and are keen on working to the last minute you'll be reassured to know that many women successfully make the transition to motherhood this way too.

The financial aspect

Any time you take as maternity leave before your baby arrives still counts as part of your entitlement so there is also a financial aspect to consider. The earlier you go on maternity leave, the sooner you'll start receiving SMP meaning that you will have fewer paid weeks off after your baby arrives. This is obviously something that you'll need to consider when deciding when you'll stop working.

Your energy levels

Pregnancy is a tiring business from beginning to end (minus a few weeks in the middle if you're lucky!!) and the final weeks of pregnancy can seem exhausting. While, if you're a first timer you'll have little way of knowing how you'll feel in the weeks before your baby arrives, y ou may want to make an educated guess based on how you're feeling now. If you've struggled with pregnancy so far in terms of tiredness, exhaustion or trouble sleeping you may choose to take some time off to relax and recuperate before you become a Mum.

Your Job

When you notify your employer of your pregnancy they are legally obliged to carry out a risk assessment of both your work environment and the work you carry out, making any necessary changes to protect your baby and ensure that you're comfortable. However, the nature of your job and your ability to cope with the demands placed on you will also affect your decision as to when you will begin maternity leave. If your concerned about being overworked or overstressed you should ask your midwife for advice on combining pregnancy with a busy working life.

Travel

If you work around the corner from where you live this is unlikely to be a determining factor in when you'll start maternity leave. However, if you 'enjoy' a long commute to work each day, whether it be by train, car or foot, it's important to take your ability to cope with it into consideration. If you find it particularly exhausting or unbearable now its possible that you'll find it even more so when you're very heavily pregnant.

What if there are complications?

If you suffer from a pregnancy related illness throughout your pregnancy you will be entitled to time off irrespective of any sickness policy your company has. The only exception to this is if you take time off sick in the final four weeks before your due date as your employer does have the power to start your maternity leave early. Similarly if you give birth before you were due to go on maternity leave it will commence from the date your baby arrives.

Holiday entitlements

Many women choose to save up their holiday entitlement to use at the start of their maternity leave. This can be a good option as it can mean you don't have to start maternity leave as early but still get the benefit of a couple of weeks at home before your baby arrives. Even if you don't have many days saved up by the time your maternity leave comes around you could use your holiday to taper down your working week whereby you take a couple of days holiday for two or three weeks before you finish for good so you still have time at home to relax and prepare for baby's arrival but keep in touch with work. However, while using your holiday to extend your maternity leave is tempting this plan isn't without its flaws as if you arrange to 'supplement' your maternity leave with your accrued holiday but then go into labour early you may lose your holiday entitlement if your company doesn't allow you to carry it over. You will however continue to accrue holiday throughout your maternity leave.

Have you already given notice of your maternity leave or are you struggling with the decision? Why not share your experience, advice and dilemmas with other parents-to-be on the AskBaby Forums..

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Hi.. I am twenty weeks pregnant, I am still uffering from morning sickness which is making my life imposible at the moment. I have struggled through work i have been signed off twice by the doctor a week at a time, I have just done a full week at work and started being really sick again vomiting... I just feel as though i cant cope much longer, everyone is getting fustrated with me at work, I cant drive any more everyone else is having too do my viewings for me which they think is unfair. I have started having panic attacks that i am going too be sick and not beable to cope...I feel asthoug i am turning into a mess mentally because i want to just give up work as soon as possible,but i want to spend time with my baby after. I was planning to work uoto four weeks before... i feel so sad that i have had morning sickness for so long..
added by hubbabubba [Mon 1st Feb 2010 @ 09:19:57]
I cant believe how uneducated some of these employers are on maternity rights. As soon as you notify an employer youre pregnant they have to re-assess your work and provide you with a suitable alternative if needed. If they cant provide an alternative your entitled to full paid leave until they can whether this be 2 weeks or until you would start maternity leave. Also any sort or appointment you have that is pregnancy related, anti natal, parent craft if suggested by midwife or vaccine as commented has to be paid as its all pregnancy related. If an employer refuses or makes any of this akward then your within youre rights to claim for discrimination - thier breaking the law.
added by beckyduck4eva [Wed 28th Oct 2009 @ 09:08:30]
Hi..Im on m y 25th week now and Im working in a call center..Im having a hard time to decide when I will take my maternity off..I am planning to take in on September 20 but its already my 39th week. Im afraid that Im still at work when I start having a labor. Can somebody please help me to decide when to take my off? I wanted of course to stay with my baby the longest time possible as I only have 60days off from work..
added by Meimei [Fri 5th Jun 2009 @ 09:10:05]
Hey..im 25 weeks pregnant n im wanting to start my maternity leave which i can in 3 weeks. but i dont know how to write my notice to my employer..can any one help? x
added by xXxlauraxXx [Fri 3rd Apr 2009 @ 09:10:23]
Exhausted - what i would advise is your employers re evaluate your helath and safety checklist - one of the main questions is do you suffer from extreme tiriedness, you workolace must change your job to suit your capabilities at this stage, so if they have to switch you from a driver to say an office based job so be it, its THEIR responsibility, and frankly i'd be worried if my mid wife thought that there wasnt an issue, hope all goes well (and im so thankful that my boss is great) let us know what happens x
added by dazedmum [Mon 23rd Mar 2009 @ 09:15:05]
i am only 4.5 weeks and cant keep my eyes open from 2.30pm onwards, saying that its hitting me now, i need to shut my eyes for half hour - ooooh dear
added by JoannaJane [Mon 9th Mar 2009 @ 09:33:03]
Hi. Does anyone else feel absolutely dreadful at only 7 weeks!!?? I am feeling nautious all day every day and I have to teach disadvantaged kids while feeling this way. I have only got 12 sick days this year to use up and trying to save them in case i get really sick and start vomiting!! I feel like I'm going nuts. I never feel ok in the tummy and just want to sleep all the time - If I can. I haven't told my boss yet - really don't know what to do- does anyone relate at all/? If so would love to hear from u ; )
added by Bubb [Mon 2nd Mar 2009 @ 09:32:05]
im feeling extremely tired already and im only 7 weeks into the 40! I find work extremly hard as am standing for 9 hours aday, plus an hour commute on the train , (mainly standing too) each way. My boss has been very understanding but my other collegues dont seem so understanding when i need to sit down for 10 mins just to get my head right again! I went to the doctors as my midwife still hasnt contacted me, and he has now signed me off work for 2 weeks so i can fully rest and when i get back, people may take it more seriously. The doctor put it in fine perspective, WHATS MORE IMPORTANT YOUR JOB OR YOUR SOON TO BE BABY? i now know that if i need to sit down, i will sit down! Good luck to you all on your pregnancies!
added by spgc86 [Tue 24th Feb 2009 @ 09:50:20]
what do you do when you are ready for maternity leave but your purky non pregnant midwife says no. I am a school bus driver i get up at 4:40 in the morning after a buetiful night of insmnia. now i am at work falling a sleep at the wheel with 65 kids on my bus.on top of that i break up fights on the school bus which had me hurt my back. then if that wasn't enough i sit ont he bus for 3 hrs at a time with no bus and get writen up for using the bathroom. what to do 30 weeks and depressed i feel like no one understands me and my nurse midwife says i cant take leave untill i am 36 weeks i dont think im going to make it im either going to get fired for using the bathroom or quit because they make me feel like i did something wrong by getting pregnant and having to use the bathroom.

added by exhausted [Wed 4th Feb 2009 @ 08:48:23]
hi i was just wondering i know i am entitled to paid time off for ante natal care, i had an appoinment with my midwife for chicken pox vaccination and she advised me not to go to work as this was a really big injection of a lot of fluid into my body and work have refused to pay me for it can they do that as they classed it as sick leave and i dont get paid for sick thanks
added by dockloid [Mon 2nd Feb 2009 @ 10:48:58]
I have a history of miscarriages and have now been declared as having a 5 week 5 day gestational sac...I can't wait for it to turn into my bundle of joy....
All fine so far..the glitch is,I hate to beg for leaves during my ist trimester from my boss, known for his rigid leave policy.The organisation as a whole is fine with my requirement of a 12 week absence as I have accumulated close to 90 sick leaves! I scared this ogre will not make it easy for me.Maybe, I am over reacting..But how do I go about this? struggling with the decision..
added by anu9 [Thu 29th Jan 2009 @ 08:54:59]
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