Baby making positions

Advice on the best sexual positions for baby making.
Surprisingly there is no official research on this but it is commonly accepted that the missionary position is among the best for conceiving. However, any positions that allow deep penetration (such as on all fours or lying down spooning) are theoretically best as sperm is placed right by the cervix and so doesn't have too far to travel on its own!

Its also generally accepted that upright positions such as girl on top or standing up aren't as effective. Some recommended avoiding lubricants as these can impair the movement of sperm or affect the hostility of the cervical fluid.

Some believe that lying with your hips raised up on a pillow, or legs in the air, for 20 minutes to half an hour after sex increases your chances of conceiving by giving gravity a helping hand. Again, whether this works or not is an unknown but some swear by it. Obviously you should avoid doing this if you have been recommended to do so by your doctor for medical reasons.

While following this advice is all well and good, the best way to increase your chances of becoming pregnant is to have regular sex throughout your cycle (2-3 time a week) with more around your most fertile time - using fertility charting methods will help you to find out when this is. Most of all its important to just relax and have fun - making sex mechanical and just for the purpose of having a baby doesn't do anyone any good and will just end up making you stressed. Try to remember that trying for a baby is meant to be the fun part!

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Hi i need a prayer from u all i need a child. Am married for 2yrs now no issue, i had a misscarrage last time, nw am expecting another child pls help me
by 08131140211 20th Jun 2013, 3:48pm
When is ur most fertile time?
by hazel07 20th Jun 2013, 3:39pm
Hello everyone pls I rily need ur help, I ve bn trying 2 get pregnant!
by favour2015 20th Jun 2013, 3:02pm
Since my husband doesnt want to, or care to do sex the 2-3 times a week and more than one time a day, does this mean that I wont ever get pregnant with him? He usually only wants to have sex once in a while and is a preacher and is that why he wouldnt wanna have much sex with me?
by misskaraoke31 25th Jan 2012, 9:58am
Thank u
by Mgbeojikwe 30th Nov 2011, 9:29am
Hi im in a 4 year relationship and we have a 2 and half year old little girl, iv been trying to have a baby for the past 2 years and i just cant get pregant is there any advise you could give to help us plz
by tn6 28th Sep 2011, 5:35pm
the best way to get pregnant is not to think about it you just have to wait for it to happen it is a pain to have to wate but it works
by nikki1993 22nd Mar 2011, 3:23pm
Here is an easy way to get pregnant...

Dont think about wanting a baby, because half of the times it doesnt work.
If you give it time you will end up getting pregnant just make sure your ready for a baby :)
by Tania18 22nd Mar 2011, 3:23pm
Being trying for a month now,nothing yet.Is it too early for success yet?
by Sailorsgirl 16th Mar 2011, 9:30am
I am 25 and been trying to have a baby for 3 yrs now but havent been able to. any advice
by lalafogle 3rd Sep 2010, 9:35am
Last year Alals Baby Birth Planning Center announced us that we will have a little boy. Although, all our friends were convinced that it will be a little girl due to the way my wife was carrying the baby. Due to her age, my wife had to go for amniocenteses and three weeks later we had the confirmation that it will be a little boy!!!!!

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by GaryMacLean 12th Aug 2010, 8:54am

we have been married for 12 years and trying to conceive but no luck yet, ive multiple fibroid and a hyper thyroid, please advice
by zita 14th May 2010, 4:41pm
hi everyone, i have a son who is 3 and we have been trying for another for about 2 years, we had some luck and i fell pregnant but unfortunatly had a miscarrige on 26 december 09. but we are still young and trying to concieve again, IS TO TO EARLY TO TRY AGAIN ? WHICH POSITION IS BEST ? DOES HAVEING YOUR BOTTOM HALF ELEVATED WORK BETTER ? thanks for reading
by mummy2jake 13th Jan 2010, 11:46am
myself and my husband have just started trying to concieve, with no positive result so far. We are still young, so there should be no pressure. I am trying to remain relaxed and carefree about the whole thing as I've heard stress can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, but its difficult and I dont really want to overthink it! any suggestions??
by ellyott 7th Jan 2010, 10:02am
Ive just had a misscage me and my partner have been trying for a year now when we found we were expecting everythink was prefect we want a baby so bad any ideas that could help us with this please i was seven weeks
by chelsea812 15th Dec 2009, 9:15am
I have been trying to conceive for the past 7 years and no luck. Any suggestions?
by lots2luv81 8th Oct 2009, 9:34am
started to try for a baby from last month onwards, no positive result so far, does it early to think of getting success ?...........
by Raja19812009 15th Sep 2009, 12:05pm
by ShareenElliisBabyx 8th Jun 2009, 9:46am
I had my tubes tide in2000 but they came a loose in 2001 and I was wondering what can I do to get pregnant
by Cookiy 20th May 2009, 9:14am
really that happend to you ? thats werriod lol anyways i might have a blessing in my belly lol im so happy
by jessii 15th Apr 2009, 10:16am
hi you all with my 1st pregnancy i got pregnant right after period therefore not sure when is my ovulation date as this ever happen to any one else. i am now trying to conceive again and not sure when is the best time to try.
by girlreal 13th Jan 2009, 9:18am